Cyn,
I have just now read your post to me, telling me that you will not read my thread to you -- shame, really, because all that you mention in your post is addressed in mine, and all that you have written sorta confirms and validates all I was trying to say to you. I know this is useless and a waste of my time, but I wrote my thread to you really so that I can say and point out to you (especially) that no one is bullying you, no one is threatening you.
I cannot and will not comment on all that you have written here -- interesting that you couldn't take 2 seconds to read what I wrote, but you could spend "x" amount of time to write all of your comments about people. For all you know, Cyn, not having read what I wrote, I might have really blasted you and said mean, cruel, insulting things to you (now, of course you know I didn't because that is not my style and you've already read the thread and know it).
I will comment only on your last sensitive, Cyn, since it does address me directly. And I'll do what you do best, I'll cut, copy and paste it so I don't miss a single word:
"[L]ook into your soul Pat, I always thought you were fair - a little sensitive but fair."
So, Cyn, exactly what am I looking into my soul for?? I'm not sure I lost anything there and can't figure out what answers I'll get when I'm there. This much I know, Cyn, I have a beautiful, wonderful, happy, warm, peaceful soul -- despite any/all trials and tribulations I have ever been through -- my soul is full of all of the events in my life -- every single one of them, good, bad and ugly. You know what, I wouldn't trade or sell my soul for all the money in the world. I am a beautiful person -- inside and out! (And most of all, I'm quite humble!

. So, no soul searching for me Cyn -- I'm quite happy with the way it is now.
The end of your quote: "... I always thought you were fair - a little sensitive but fair." -- well, on both of those points you are 100% correct! Yes, I am absolutely fair in every sense of the word. I spend much of my time advocating for those who have been treated unfairly and will most likely go to my grave saying, "But that's not fair!" I loathe unfairness; I loathe injustice and I have zero tolerance for anyone who does not accept responsibility and accountability for their actions, especially if they've treated someone unfairly. So, thanks for the compliment, Cyn -- I am a fair person in every regard.
As for "a little sensitive but fair" -- well, you got me again. Yes, Cyn, I am not just a little sensitive -- I am very, very sensitive and sometimes to a fault, but I will tell you this without any shame -- it is because of my sincere utter sensitivity that I can be a loving, giving, sensitive human being and I can care for others -- regardless of age, race, creed, sex, or species for that matter. I am not afraid to be laugh, cry or share any emotions with another person. I am proud of being sensitive -- I wish everyone could be as sensitive as me! Really, I know it sounds pompous, but I have spent much of my life having to defend my being "overly sensitive" while those who are overly rude are okay to carry on! Really?! I don't think so.
So, Cyn, you can think I'm overly sensitive and to that I simply say, it will not change a thing about me. Trust me, it's my sensitivity to ALL that has me even corresponding with you, so perhaps there is no such thing as "too sensitive"
Geez, I love when I get to defend myself and what a good person I am. All the sensitivity or unfairness in the world cannot equal the strength I have within me. I'm proud to be the person I am. Thanks for letting me get up on the soap box to shout about it -- I needed it today!
Good day all!